Saturday, November 23, 2013

My connections to Play



My connections to Play

Pet rocks were my childhood best friends. They were not my only friends but a great contributor. I lived in the country and needless to say, I didn’t have much to do. My parents didn’t allow television in my home so my selections of activities were limited. My best friend lived a couple of doors down and we would search the gravel walk way to find the perfect rocks to add to our collection. We had a museum of rocks by the time I was 12.


My second connection to play within a childhood memory would have to be skating around the house pretending I owned an indoor restaurant. In my restaurant we skated to serve food to our guest. I never knew I would one day grow to dislike serving food on skates. I worked at sonic for about two years in high school. I fell so many times.





I included a few quotes because I found so many quotes that described my childhood play so well. My parents were old fashioned they believed in letting me be who I wanted to be as crazy as it may be. I find that as a parent I tend to correct behavior too much. In doing this assignment it reminded me how free spirited I was as a child and made me realize that I tend to try to stop my children when they do some of the same things. I guess we get so use to trying to keep order and make sure that they are safe that we forget that some of these same things have made us who we are today. I loved to dress up prissy and wear high heels while running thru the garden and rolling in mud. I would come in the house and have to strip down and take a bath. All of my friends enjoyed coming to my house because we didn’t have to choose one toy at a time we could just play freely and clean up later. As a parent I try to keep everything and order and clean. Now don’t get me wrong I love to play and have fun but I feel that I may have forgotten how great it felt to just create something out of nothing. For all that goes to let the kids dress up nice and run in mud.
            I like to make fun and games out of everything. I almost feel that I try to ensure that there is something to do and create out of everything to the extent that I leave little for the imagination. I know as a child I had a great imagination and I see it in my children as well. From the pet rocks, flower gardens, dress up flings, and sleep overs my life was always interesting.

Saturday, November 9, 2013

Relationship Reflections



Relationship Reflections
I have many different types of positive relationships in my life. My relationship with my parents now is very different than it was when I was a child. I have always had a close relationship with my family; however, until I became a parent I didn’t know how much I valued their opinion. I call my parents between four and six times a day. Sometimes it is just to catch up and see how they are. Other times I call to ask how to cook something or ask if they can help with my children. We often spend a lot of time doing things together such as shopping, going to church, or cooking together. I have a positive relationship with one of my sisters she is my world. My other two siblings however I am not very close to. My sister Julie and I call each other between three and six times a day as well. Our children are close and we live within walking distance from each other. If I ever need anything I know that I call her and she will come.  
            When it comes to friends and relationships I have a really hard time because I have really bad trust issues. I think I also have a hard time communicating or finding people with like interest. I have one friend that I have had for about years. She is my best friend and she lives with me and helps me with my children. Her name is Kelly. We do almost everything together. I have about other people that I would consider friends. I just don’t do a lot with them. I see them almost every day but we don’t hang out a lot. I have six friends that I have known since kindergarten. I guess that you would consider them my childhood friends. We stay in touch, share pictures, and often check up on each other. I haven’t seen most of them in years.
            When it comes to relationships I have been single for two almost three years. I have had a hard time getting over my ex so moving on isn’t really in the question yet. I have a really hard time trusting people.
            Then there are my relationships with the children within my classroom, their families, and the people that I work with. I have a very strong relationship with all of these wonderful groups of people. I often lose touch of my personal life trying to keep all of it together. I feel that have a positive relationship with all of these groups is very import when it comes to your career.